Keep plugging away: Finding peace in every step

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The Ripple Effect:

"Doing My Part"

By Bert Russell

Date and Time: 7/16/2026 @ 9:37 AM

 

It started with a phone call from an 816 area code.

That caught my attention because it was familiar. I answered, expecting it might be someone I knew. Instead, there was a long pause followed by laughter or giggling in the background before the call ended.

The next morning, I received a text from the same number. It contained an encrypted-looking message mentioning the use of multiple carriers. My response was simple:

"STOP".

The reply came back almost immediately:

"stop. Lol."

That was enough to irritate me.

Instead of simply deleting the message, I decided to spend a little time learning where it came from. The phone number appeared to belong to a woman in her twenties from Michigan with two prior fraud convictions. Whether she was actually behind the messages, a victim of number spoofing, or someone whose identity had been connected to the number, I have no way of knowing. The real person running the scam could just as easily be operating behind a VPN from the other side of the world.

So I chose not to make assumptions. I won't publish a name or address because I don't know who is truly responsible.

What I did do was submit the information to the FBI's Internet Crime Complaint system. Will anything come of it? Probably not. But that isn't really the point.

The point is that citizenship isn't measured only by the big things we do. Sometimes it's measured by the small decisions no one else notices. Reporting something suspicious may not stop a criminal today, but if enough people do their part, those individual actions begin to overlap.

That's how ripples work.

One pebble rarely changes a lake. Thousands of pebbles eventually change the shoreline.

We can't control what scammers do. We can only control how we respond. Sometimes the best response isn't anger—it's taking one small step to make things just a little harder for the people trying to take advantage of others.

The ripple isn't about catching the criminal.

It's about refusing to ignore the problem.

Peace of MIND, BODY, and SOUL. ✌️ 

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LOYALITY? A FIGMENT OF MY IMAGINATION!!!

BY Bert Russell

7/14/2026 @ 6:53 AM

 

Why is loyalty so often rewarded with a higher bill?

 

I've never understood it.

 

A company advertises, "Switch to us and we'll pay off your phone." Another offers a free device, discounted service, or a gift card to someone who has never spent a dollar with them.

 

Meanwhile, the customer who has faithfully paid their bill for five, ten, or even twenty years quietly watches their monthly payment increase.

 

Somewhere along the way, we stopped rewarding loyalty and started rewarding the willingness to leave.

 

I'm not against businesses making money. A healthy business should earn a profit. Profit allows companies to grow, create jobs, and innovate. But I also believe profit should never come at the expense of trust.

 

If it costs less to keep an existing customer than to find a new one, why do so many companies treat loyalty like it's guaranteed instead of earned?

 

Maybe the numbers make sense on a spreadsheet.

 

Maybe the marketing department calls it customer acquisition.

 

But from the customer's side of the table, it feels different.

 

It feels like loyalty has become an expense instead of an asset.

 

The companies I remember most aren't the ones that gave me the biggest discount. They're the ones that made me feel appreciated after years of doing business together.

 

Trust isn't built with a flashy promotion.

 

It's built one honest interaction at a time.

 

Maybe it's time we stopped asking how much it costs to gain a customer and started asking what it costs to lose the trust of one who's already been there all along.

 

Because in the end, loyalty shouldn't be punished.

 

It should be the most valuable thing a company earns.

 

— The Ripple Effect by Bert Russell.

The Ripple Effect – Artificial Sunshine

by Bert Russell

Date: 6-28-2026 @ 8:58 PM

There is something comforting about lying in the sun. The warmth settles over your skin. The breeze reminds you that the world is still moving while, for just a few moments, you don't have to. Birds sing. Waves roll ashore. The smell of sunscreen, fresh-cut grass, or lake water becomes part of the memory.

A tanning bed can duplicate the color.

It cannot duplicate the experience.

Artificial light can darken your skin in a climate-controlled room with a timer on the wall. Natural sunlight offers something far more complicated. It encourages your body to produce vitamin D, helps regulate your internal clock, and for many people, improves mood simply by spending time outdoors. At the same time, too much natural sunlight increases the risk of skin damage and skin cancer. Nature gives—but it also expects respect.

Tanning beds promise convenience. Ten or fifteen minutes, no bugs, no wind, no clouds. Yet the ultraviolet radiation produced by tanning beds is concentrated and has been linked to an increased risk of skin cancer, including melanoma. The tan may be artificial, but the damage can be very real.

Maybe the lesson isn't really about tanning.

Maybe it's about life.

We live in a world that constantly offers artificial substitutes. Artificial friendships through social media. Artificial confidence through filters. Artificial conversations through text messages. Artificial flavors that taste almost like the real thing. Artificial intelligence that can imitate wisdom.

Many of these things have value.

But they should never replace the original.

The real world asks us to slow down. To hear the laughter of children at the lake. To feel sand between our toes. To notice the changing colors of a sunset instead of scrolling past another picture of one. Nature reminds us that some experiences cannot be downloaded.

The ripple effect begins when we choose authenticity over convenience.

A tan eventually fades.

But an afternoon spent with family on the water, watching a sunset, listening to the wind through the trees, or simply sitting beside someone you love—those moments become part of who we are. They ripple through our memories for years.

The healthiest choice may not be chasing the darkest tan at all.

It may simply be spending time outside wisely—wearing sunscreen, respecting the power of the sun, and remembering that nature was never designed to be conquered. It was designed to be experienced.

Sometimes the greatest light we receive isn't the one that changes the color of our skin.

It's the one that quietly changes our perspective.

"Education is the key. Teaching is the degree". - Ruth Ann Russell (1922-2001) ✌️be with YOU!

 

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Ripple Effect – One Missed Haircut

by Bert Russell

Date: 6-27-2026 @ 10:42 PM

Today was an awesome adventure. I missed a haircut, but sometimes the things we don't accomplish become the very things that make the day memorable. Life has a way of rearranging our plans, not to punish us, but to remind us that we are rarely in complete control.

The funny thing about a missed appointment is that, in the grand scheme of life, it doesn't really matter. Yet while I was thinking about it, I realized how many small events shape the direction of an entire day. One conversation leads to another. One stop becomes two. One unexpected delay creates an opportunity that never would have existed if everything had gone according to schedule.

That is the Ripple Effect.

Most of us measure our lives by the big accomplishments—the promotions, the vacations, the milestones, the celebrations. But the real story of our lives is often written in the ordinary moments. A smile to a stranger. Holding a door. Calling someone you haven't spoken to in months. Taking a different road home. Missing a haircut.

Every decision sends out waves we may never witness.

I often wonder how many people have unknowingly changed my life without ever realizing it. A teacher who offered encouragement. A friend who listened when I needed someone. A mechanic who fixed a truck just in time. A family member who believed in me when I struggled to believe in myself.

They probably thought it was just another day.

To me, it became part of my story.

The same is true for each of us. We never truly know where our influence ends. A kind word may echo through someone's life for years. A patient response may prevent an argument that could have hurt a relationship. A simple act of understanding may give someone enough hope to keep moving forward.

The ripples continue long after we can no longer see them.

Perhaps that is why every day matters. Not because everything goes according to plan, but because every day gives us another opportunity to leave the water a little calmer than we found it.

Maybe I never needed that haircut today.

Maybe I needed the reminder that life's greatest purpose isn't found in perfect schedules. It is found in the unseen waves we create by simply being present, choosing kindness, offering grace, and recognizing that every encounter has the potential to reach farther than we could ever imagine.

The Ripple Effect reminds us that no act of goodness is ever too small. Like a single stone dropped into a quiet lake, one moment can travel farther than the eye can see, touching lives we may never meet.

Education is the key. Teaching is the degree. ✌

Ripple Effect – One Wave at a Time

by Bert Russell

Date: 6-25-2026 @ 5:41 AM

Sometimes I know something that could help another person. I have the experience, the answer, or the lesson they need. The problem isn't willingness—it's time. There are only so many hours in a day, and every hour I give away is one I cannot invest somewhere else.

It leaves me asking an impossible question:

Who do I help?

Surfing offers an unexpected answer.

When a surfer catches a wave, the ride doesn't end when they step back onto the beach. The wave continues toward shore, pushing water in every direction. It collides with other waves, moves sand beneath the surface, and changes the shoreline in ways no one notices at the time.

Helping people works much the same way.

You may only help one person, but that person may encourage a coworker, comfort a family member, teach a child, solve someone else's problem, or inspire another act of kindness. The knowledge you shared doesn't stop with them. It keeps traveling long after you've moved on.

We often measure our time by how many people we can reach.

Life measures it by how far the ripple travels.

That doesn't mean saying yes to everyone. Even the strongest surfer cannot ride every wave. Time is limited, and wisdom means choosing where your energy will have the greatest impact.

Sometimes helping one person creates more good than trying to help ten.

We rarely witness the final destination of our kindness. Like ripples across the water, its greatest effects often happen beyond our sight.

Maybe that's the point.

We are not responsible for creating every wave.

We are simply responsible for riding the ones that allow hope, knowledge, and compassion to continue moving long after we've returned to shore.

The Ripple Effect: A Kind Word

by Bert Russell

Date: 6-24-2026 @ 7:37 PM

Learning to swim can be frightening.

The first time you step into deep water, your heart races. You wonder if you're strong enough, brave enough, or capable enough. Then someone standing beside the pool smiles and says, "You've got this. I believe in you."

Those few words may seem small.

But they can make all the difference.

Life works the same way.

We never truly know what someone else is carrying. They may be struggling with work, family, health, loneliness, or simply having one of the worst days of their life. Then, out of nowhere, someone offers a genuine compliment.

"Wow... that outfit looks wonderful on you."

"You have a beautiful smile."

"I really appreciate everything you do."

"You handled that situation well."

Those words take only seconds to say.

Yet they can stay with someone for years.

Think about how you feel when someone sincerely compliments you. For a moment, your shoulders relax. You smile. Your confidence grows. You feel noticed. You feel valued.

That is the ripple effect of kindness.

A simple compliment may not solve every problem, but it might give someone enough hope to keep going for one more day. Sometimes, that is all a person needs.

Just as a swimming instructor helps a nervous child believe they can float before they ever learn to swim, our words can help people believe in themselves before they believe it on their own.

Kindness costs nothing.

But its value can be priceless.

You may never know how far one encouraging sentence travels.

So today, be someone's reason to smile.

You never know whose life might change because of a few sincere words.

Peace of Mind.
Peace of Body.
Peace of Soul. ✌

— Bert Russell, Missouri

Education is the key. Teaching is the degree.

 

The Ripple Effect: Father's Day

by Bert Russell

Date: 6-19-2026 @ 5:59 PM

I found myself thinking about this all week as Father's Day approached.

I loved my father very much.

As a child, I knew he was my dad. As an adult, I realized he was so much more. He was my educator, my advisor, my provider, my friend, my colleague, and sometimes my debating partner. We butted heads more than once, but I never doubted that he loved me, and I hope he never doubted how much I loved him.

When I think about him, I do not remember one big lesson. I remember thousands of small ones.

He taught me how to ride a bicycle, shoot a basketball, throw a baseball, hold a flashlight correctly, and work hard. He taught me how to water ski, snow ski, sled, swim, play tennis, and enjoy the outdoors.

We played countless rounds of golf together. We visited museums, art galleries, fish charters, and took vacations. Looking back, I realize those experiences were never just about the activity itself. They were opportunities to learn, laugh, and spend time together.

Perhaps the greatest lesson he taught me was how not to quit.

Life was not always easy, and neither was he. There were things he did that I did not always understand or agree with. No parent is perfect. No child is perfect. But when I look at the whole picture, I see a man who showed up. He was there when I was down, and he was there when I was happy.

The older I get, the more I appreciate the sacrifices he made that I never noticed at the time.

I owe much of who I am today to him.

That is the ripple effect of a father.

Long after the conversations end, the lessons remain. Long after the golf rounds are finished, the memories stay. Long after a father is gone, his influence continues to travel through the lives he touched.

I miss him most days.

As I reflect on Father's Day, I realize something important. I do not remember one big lesson. I remember thousands of small ones. The way he lived, the things he taught, the example he set, and the time he gave became the foundation for much of my life.

Sometimes the greatest legacy a father leaves behind is not found in a single moment. It is found in the thousands of ordinary moments that quietly shape a child forever.

Peace of mind. Peace of body. Peace of soul. ✌

Education is the key. Teaching is the degree.

Peace4All: Seven Generations

by Bert Russll

Date: 6-18-2026 @ 2:19 AM

One of the ideas that fascinates me most about Native American culture is the belief that our decisions should consider the impact on the next seven generations.

Imagine that for a moment.

What if every law, every business decision, every argument, and every act of kindness was measured not by how it affects us today, but by how it affects people who have not even been born yet?

The modern world often moves at incredible speed. We want immediate results, instant answers, and quick rewards. Yet many Native American traditions remind us that life is not simply about today. We are part of something much larger than ourselves.

The forests we enjoy were planted by people we never met.

The roads we travel were built by people who are gone.

The freedoms we enjoy were protected by generations who sacrificed before us.

In many ways, we are living on the gifts of those who came before us.

The question then becomes: What gifts are we leaving behind?

Are we planting seeds or merely consuming the harvest?

Are we building bridges or creating divisions?

Are we leaving future generations with more opportunities, more knowledge, and more peace than we inherited?

Perhaps true wisdom is understanding that we are not owners of this world. We are caretakers for a brief period of time.

One day, the next generation will inherit the choices we make today.

My hope is that they inherit a little more kindness, a little more understanding, and a little more peace.

Peace begins when we stop asking, "What is best for me?" and start asking, "What is best for those who come after me?"

Peace of mind. Peace of body. Peace of soul. ✌

Education is the key. Teaching is the degree.